SUNDAY 22ND OF ORDINARY TIME - YEAR C. Paul Kelly
“What’s in it for me?” “What can I get out of this?” “What can this person do for me?” All these kinds of questions are still quite commonly asked by people in this day and age… as they were in Jesus’ time. And I am sure these kinds of minsets disappoint God just as much today as they did back then…………Because this kind of thinking is just so foreign to God’s ways……………
Today’s gospel is about Jesus teaching us about the virtue of humility…. But….
“The challenge today is not about watching others practice humility but whether we ourselves are willing always to humble ourselves. Humility does not mean acting humbly but actually being humble and drawing no attention to ourselves. This is why truly humble people are loved so much. They make life easier for all of everyone else around them, no matter how ‘great’ they are considered to be by others……, they take up the burdens and responsibilities of community without drawing attention to themselves and they serve others with joy.[1]
For me, humility is really about being honest about how things really are between us and God. We are truly humble when we live the truth of the fact that all good comes from God…. And that if we do any good in this world, it is by God’s grace and guidance… not of any merit of our own…. If we help the poor… include the marginalized…. Serve without counting the cost, we are not actually doing something praiseworthy.. rather.. we are just living the way God acts all the time… by God’s very nature… not out of duty… but out of love…
The message of today’s gospel can possibly be best summed up by a saying the Jewish rabbis would have known well.. even if they did not practice it in this gospel….. it’s a saying that goes like this… “ the best kind of giving is when the giver does not know to whom they were giving, and the receiver does know know from whom they are receiving.”[2] Because, then its pure gift… giving for the sake of giving itself.. with no self interest….
Another way of putting it was the words of a witty cynic.. when they said… “hospitality is a lively sense of the favours to come.” Jesus wants to totally break this mindset…. Hospitality and engagement with others is not for what it can gain.. but for including those who cannot presently participate by the rules and expectations of a calculating culture….
Also, in this gospel today…
“What Jesus is teaching are not fine points of etiquette or the best way to show table manners and the like. Rather, Jesus is promoting an interior attitude that really demonstrates where we stand, that is, do we consider our self the centre of the universe, or are we willing to be the servant of others?
The way of Christ is the latter, for the self-centred will end up lost, but those who serve others and open their hearts to all will find fulfilment. Such persons, and we are invited to be among them, will gain everything needed for a life on fire for God and the things of God. As Jesus acted in his lifetime, so should the followers of Christ. There is an Amish teaching that says (in instructing their young people): "Joy" stands for …..Jesus first, Others in between, and Yourself last.”[3]
I have been thinking of writing a reflection, one day, called ‘great Christian clangers’…. That is… times when, in church experience, people or groups did actions that were so totally against the very point of calling ourselves Christian disciples…// because, sometimes we get it very wrong…. //…and sadly we can get it wrong a lot more often than we are willing to admit…..//… So, let us pray.. in our daily prayers,/// that God will always give us a wonderful sense of proportion.. that we will always gain a sense of what really IS the central point of Jesus message…. Because, in this gospel, the so called religious leaders of Jesus time had really gone off the point…. They sat there glaring at Jesus and trying to find fault with him when all they were really doing was hobnobbing with people who could benefit them.,.. and ignoring those most in need….and all Jesus was doing was acting out of love and curing those in need and welcoming those God loves whom others felt were of no value to them.,……/… . sometimes ones breath is taken away about how people who call themselves faithful followers of God can get it so wrong with their actions and attitudes…. Let us pray to Jesus that we are always given a wonderful sense of proportion, generosity and self-giving service….and of course, honest humility…